Word of the Month: Play

Yes, I’m late with this blog because I’m taking our August Word of the Month – Play- very seriously. I’m enjoying three different trips in three weeks, with work interspersed (cannot completely escape that!), but I’m definitely prioritizing Play!

I believe that summer is a time to relax and to be with our friends and families. It’s a time to travel and take time for ourselves. This is what I am embracing this month.

I’m currently on a trip in Toronto with my youngest son, Damian, who is 10 years old. Watching him – I witness that playing is something kids embrace SO easily and SO well. When you hang out with a 10 year old it’s clear that playing is a priority! We’ve taken tours, appreciated views, baseball games and ice cream together and yes- dropping the devices to stay present with where we are has been a welcomed and successful challenge. Makes ME feel like a kid again. This attitude and action of integrating PLAY in my day to day – could very well be the magical anti-aging technique. Next week I’m going to Lake Tahoe with all three of my kids. The Play will be priority but probably a bit more of a challenge with dropping the devices! But I’m up for it. I’ll post on instagram the horrified faces when they realize the threat of an entire 48 hours without devices is a real. Ha!

At the Dailey Method, we believe in balancing the mind, body and soul, fitness and fun, work and relaxation. And I’m firmly aligned with that belief (thank goodness!). We design our classes to incorporate balance between these factors and I’m thrilled that now, we are designing retreats to allow you to immerse yourself in this life practice. Don’t we all want to have childlike energy – forever?

When I can’t find the time or haven’t planned an extended vacation – or even when I need a day or two to simply escape – I head North to my favorite retreat spot at Indian Springs in Calistoga. And this is where we are holding our Fall retreat. I’m so excited!

I’d like to personally invite each of you to join me at this amazing place November 7- 9th, 2018.  We will definitely “Play” but with practical purpose! We’ve designed this Dailey Method Wellness Retreat to help you deeply relax, enjoy great food and experience fitness within a community of like-minded people. It’s also a great means to help you deepen your practice inside our studio and your life when you return to your regular routine.

You’ll experience multiple Dailey Method classes from myself and two other of our amazing Master Teacher trainers, healing hot springs, healthful meals and much, much more! There’s hiking, spa treatments, bikes, wine tasting and other adventures available for you to take advantage of outside of the curriculum we’ve created for you. And the best part – which I know doesn’t happen very often – is that we will take care of everything for you. Our goal is for you to relax, be present and Play.

Will you join me? I hope so!!

 

Fit Tip- Find Deeper Connection in Flat Back Floor

 

 

Flat back floor (FBF) is potentially my favorite abdominal exercise! Over the 18 years that The Dailey Method has been practicing this exercise it has continued to be refined, possibly more than any of the others, due to its complexities and its benefits. Yes, we’ve geeked out on it a bit-but with that attention to detail we have acquired tons of knowledge and have developed cuing to go along side it. The end result is helping you find your ideal position to work most effectively. When executed mindfully, FBF works to strengthen the smaller and deeper muscles that stabilize your entire core. This gives you a corset of core support from the inside out, front, side and back. There is a common misconception that your abdominals are your core- but your back and sides are also part of your core. Targeting these muscles is just as important as engaging the abdominals to achieve strength and stability for your spine and pelvis. FBF also directly targets your transverse abdominus, which is the deepest layer of our abdominal muscles. This layer is the most difficult abdominal muscle to connect with, especially if not in your ideal alignment. This layer is most accessible when you’re in a true neutral spine and pelvis. When people think “flat back” they generally think of removing the spinal curves and flattening their back to the floor. But that’s not where you can achieve the greatest benefit. We teach it with a neutral spine and pelvis while trying to maintain what’s called axial elongation. Axial elongation is the proper alignment of the head, spine and pelvis, with as much length as possible, so it provides optimum spacing between the joints during movement. When you are in alignment you have a better capacity to engage your muscles properly. Alignment of your spine is the key to getting your best benefit out of every exercise at The Dailey Method and in life. The cuing focus for this exercise is the back body integration into the ground. By energetically connecting your entire back body to the floor you have greater ability to fire up all of your trunk stabilizers.

Set up:

  • Lay on your back with knees bent and feet flat on the floor. Rock your pelvis back and forth to find and then settle your pelvis and spine into neutral.
  • Inhale length to your spine and try to reach sitz bones and the crown of your head as far away from each other as possible. This is what is defined above as axial elongation. You’re actively creating more space between each of your vertebrae while still maintaining optimal alignment.
  • Press the energy of your back to the ground without changing the position. Feel your sacrum root down, your rib cage and shoulder blades press down, and the sides of your waist connecting into the floor. Your low back will likely still be slightly off of the floor but you are energizing the musculature of your entire back to the floor. By activating the muscles of the back body you create a corset of support. You’ll notice that the action of pressing down with the back body will naturally create a deeper engagement of the abdominal muscles. 
  • While maintaining stability, lift your legs up and straighten them out over your hips (if you have tight hamstrings keep the legs slightly bent.
  • In counts of 2-4, lower one leg towards the floor as far as you can without losing alignment or engagement, and then alternate.

The simple action of maintaining focused energy of the musculature down towards the floor will have a positive strengthening impact. Taking the weight of the legs moving further away from your center line to challenge the engagement can progress with time as you get stronger and more aware of what muscles you are engaging.

Have fun!

Word of the Month: Connect

WOM Connect

We cannot live only for ourselves. A thousand fibers connect us with our fellow men.  Herman Melville

One of the things that I appreciate the most about The Dailey Method is that it’s an environment that invites and nurtures connection in a number of different ways. We all desire and crave connection. Connecting with our students and our communities is something that we value and is at the core of our training. Here are different ways we train our teachers and staff to connect, and can help you to focus on connecting with others and yourself this month.

  1. Connect with someone through eye contact. With a store clerk, the local barista and definitely with people that are important in your life. This is my absolute favorite way to connect with people. It lets them know I’m present with them, I see them, and that I am truly listening to what they’re saying. It’s even better if a smile accompanies it!
  2. Connect to what it takes you to get to class in light of your busy life. Notice the steps you took to be here 1, 2, 3, 4  or 5 times a week. Thank and appreciate yourself for taking those steps.
  3. Connect to one to two steps you can take in class to deepen your practice versus doing an exercise the same way you’ve always done it. Try holding the depth in thigh work a little longer than you normally would, resetting plank by going onto your knees to find deeper engagement, or self adjusting in back dancing with your hands on your hips to sense the squareness of your pelvis and achieve better alignment.
  4. Connect to your breath. Only by leaning into challenge or adversity do we ever see it through. Breathe and lean in so that you can meet physical challenges in class today in a new way. Let it help you find length and depth of engagement or push you through a difficult section of class. Take this breath and connection with you into the remainder of your day.
  5. Connect internally with your mind and your body. At The Dailey Method we work on cuing micro adjustments so you can achieve better alignment and get deeper into a position. This focus can also translate to a much needed meditative focus on your body and breath. Connection to oneself requires that we carve out the space to be present with ourselves and get out of our head. It can feel overwhelming, I know, but it’s as important in creating a more balanced and peaceful life. Just think how your might be affected by this small shift!
  6. Commit to connect with or to say hi to someone in the studio today, before or after class. It could be a person you’ve seen in passing, have always thought was interesting, or that you just happen to be standing next to. We spend so much of life with our heads down and on our to-do list and while you may not know this person, it’s possible you could be missing opportunities to meet amazing people you were meant to become connected to in this lifetime. The more we can connect with our communities the more potential support we can both give and receive in our lives.

 

With eye contact and a smile!  Jill

 

Fit Tip: Discover deeper alignment in Reverse Plank by using your breath.

TDM Master teacher trainer Maggie Calegari in Reverse Plank

 

Reverse plank is a very challenging position, especially when done correctly, and it’s one of my favorite challenges to add into a class. Reverse plank works your entire body and emphasizes chest opening with the added benefits of gaining powerful back body strength.

Here’s your set-up:

  • Sit with your legs straight in front of you, internally rotate your thigh bones in your pelvis and press your big toes together.
  • Place your hands directly behind your hips with your fingers pointing straight towards your seat (if your chest is tight you can fan your fingers out slightly as Maggie is doing above).
  • Bend your elbows backwards, tip your pelvis under, and lift your hips as high as you can.
  • Focus on finding one straight line from your toes to your head, lengthen the sides of your neck maintaining a neutral cervical curvature.
  • Use the strength of your back body to keep pressing chest, hips and legs upward.
  • If you need a modification bend your knees at a 90 degree angle and press your hips up from there. Aim for a straight line from knees to crown of head.

Once you get yourself aligned in position, use your breath to help you deepen the pose and discover the ability you have to align even deeper and additionally stay in the position a little longer. Find your new edge. Breathe to aid in helping you stay more aligned while finding new levels of challenge each time you resume this position. 

  • As you inhale reach your toes (or knees if modifying) and head as far away from each other as possible and feel the sides of your ribs lengthen.
  • On the exhale root down into your hands, broaden your collarbones (roll your chest open) and press your hips as high as possible. Repeat with the emphasis on your breath. Aim to hold for one minute.

Remember – breath is a powerful tool that allows you to work through difficulty and can help you discover then push past self imposed limitations. You are stronger than you think!

Word of the Month: Discover

WOM: Discover

Challenges make you discover things about yourself that you never really knew. Cicely Tyson

I love this picture of Master Teacher Trainer, Katina Griffin. It shows the power and capabilities we have to discover our own personal edge. There is so much thought and integration working throughout her entire body to hold this challenging position in phenomenal alignment. She’s focused and consistently discovering how she can align or engage deeper to reach her best potential – today.

Self discovery and experiencing new things are true passions of my own and I’m excited for our June word of the month: Discover. There’s so much in life to discover, to see and do and feel. I love to travel, be introduced to new cultures, experiences, sights, and to meet new people. I also love to play with movement. It allows me a chance to learn something new or experience something familiar in a very different way. So much of what we do at The Dailey Method is to help you discover what is inside of you. Our workout provides you opportunities in every class you take to uncover your best potential.  It calls on you to discover new challenges in a way that helps push you past your edge and onto greater achievements.

Here’s a few ways for you to “Discover” this month:

  1. Discover how your breath patterns can change the way an exercise feels. I tend to think generally the best technique is to inhale as you lengthen (move away from your center line) and exhale as you shorten (draw towards center line or the more exertive portion of the movement). But try it the other way and see if it changes the way you can engage. Or play with lengthening out your breath to see how that feels.
  2. Take different types of classes offered at your Studio or online this month. If you stick to Dailey Basics, try a Dailey Barre class. If you’re a Dailey Cyclist try a Dailey Interval class. If Dailey Interval or Dailey Fusion are generally you’re choice, try a Dailey Basics or Dailey Gentle instead. You may surprise yourself with what you discover which will inevitably help you gain even more out of the format you prefer.
  3. Challenge yourself to do something you’ve never done. This can be as simple as going to a movie by yourself or as big a challenge as skydiving!
  4. Stop and smell the flowers. (such old advice, I know!!)
  5. Discover a new body part to focus on today in a position where you tend to think of the exercise as only one-dimensional. An example: In Narrow V thigh work – work on engaging your gluteals and hamstrings more as you squeeze your heels together. This will allow you to feel how the back body and inner thighs can work as hard as  your quadriceps during thigh work. Especially on the upward part of the movement.
  6. Transform your Dailey Method practice by discovering  new ways to shape “your edge”. And “edge” doesn’t always refer to intensity. Today, maybe you opt to take a couple more resets versus pushing through a difficult part of class. Try it! You could discover a segue to inviting more allowance for recovery time in every class you take therefore opening the door to a 4-5 day a week TDM practice versus only 1-2.  

There are so many things out there to enjoy and discover.

Have fun exploring!!

Jill

 

 

 

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